I could tell you were gradually working up to some kind of announcement or life change, I think a lot of us could. Very slowly, more liberal and open minded stuff began to come from your account. Part of me was conflicted as I was also just as determined as you to live that perfect Catholic life. I was quite intimidated by you at times because I wasn't as pious as you. As your account began to change, I thought oh no, not another one.
But I'm here on this journey with you, in similar and different ways. The church can be so much more beautiful with people like us in it, changing things for the better. It'll be okay. It'll all be okay. God WANTS us here as we are. Otherwise he wouldn't have created us. Sending you all the love and happiness in the world in your new chapter.
Although I didn't leave the Catholic church I deconstructed from evangelism a few years ago. I relate to your story so much and have enjoyed watching your growth on TikTok (even back in the long skirt and veils days). You truly have a gift for writing and I can't wait to see what you publish in the future ❤️
Grateful for your writing and looking forward to reading more! I left the church about 2 years ago and deconstruction resources for Catholics are so sparse. Alanna Boudreau was the only person i knew of sort of writing about this topic…so glad you are adding your voice and story :)
Such beautiful and authentic words. Deconstructing and then reconstructing our faith around our divine sacred feminine spirit is a deep and fulfilling experience. One that is more and more necessary as we learn to walk in our beloved createdness. Thank you for your story.
Leaving fundamental Catholicism in my college years was an experience full of profound grief, confusion, and hurt, but now I have found light on the other side. Thank you for continuing to share your story, you give me hope and help me feel less alone 🥹❤️
I could tell you were gradually working up to some kind of announcement or life change, I think a lot of us could. Very slowly, more liberal and open minded stuff began to come from your account. Part of me was conflicted as I was also just as determined as you to live that perfect Catholic life. I was quite intimidated by you at times because I wasn't as pious as you. As your account began to change, I thought oh no, not another one.
But I'm here on this journey with you, in similar and different ways. The church can be so much more beautiful with people like us in it, changing things for the better. It'll be okay. It'll all be okay. God WANTS us here as we are. Otherwise he wouldn't have created us. Sending you all the love and happiness in the world in your new chapter.
So excited to read!! Love you Ev!
Although I didn't leave the Catholic church I deconstructed from evangelism a few years ago. I relate to your story so much and have enjoyed watching your growth on TikTok (even back in the long skirt and veils days). You truly have a gift for writing and I can't wait to see what you publish in the future ❤️
Grateful for your writing and looking forward to reading more! I left the church about 2 years ago and deconstruction resources for Catholics are so sparse. Alanna Boudreau was the only person i knew of sort of writing about this topic…so glad you are adding your voice and story :)
Thank you for the gift of sharing your experience with us. I wish you all the best.
Thank you for sharing your story!
Such beautiful and authentic words. Deconstructing and then reconstructing our faith around our divine sacred feminine spirit is a deep and fulfilling experience. One that is more and more necessary as we learn to walk in our beloved createdness. Thank you for your story.
Leaving fundamental Catholicism in my college years was an experience full of profound grief, confusion, and hurt, but now I have found light on the other side. Thank you for continuing to share your story, you give me hope and help me feel less alone 🥹❤️